The main purpose of most plays and dramas is to inform people about some things that we do as a whole in our communities and make people consider the consequences of our actions and beliefs Back in olden days, people valued their morals and beliefs and they intended to do anything to protect them because they were respected by those values Sometimes the ideas and intents of old plays come from some real problems or situations but since those ideas are passed on as plays, dramas and being a source of money, the story has to keep the audience enthusiastic and interested and that is why they add some events such as comedy and tragedies.
I believe that every story depicts a picture of society it was written in and it tells us a lot about the real people and their characteristics at that time Romeo and Juliet is one of many Shakespeare’s famous plays and a story of two people who were destined to have their life ended as a tragedy from the beginning Many people believe that since it is a story of two “star-crossed lovers”, fate contributed a lot in their lives and all the other characters had their parts to play in their death Characters like Tybalt, Mercutio, Lord Capulet, Nurse and Friar Lawrence are the main people who could be blamed for the reasons behind Romeo and Juliet’s death, however, we cannot say that they were the real reasons.
In my opinion, the real reasons behind their death were decisions made on impulse, poor relationship within the family, lack of communication and a lot of expectations.
Moreover, we also cannot ignore the fact that Romeo and Juliet’s deaths were suicides, therefore, we cannot hold one particular person responsible because everyone did what they saw ﬁt at that time, The first reason of Romeo and Juliet’s death were the decisions made on impulse or mistakes made by too much reliance on character’s feelings because that is why Romeo made his ﬁrst wrong decision which was to enter the Capulet‘s party. Romeo, at that time, was very attached and attracted to Rosaline and when he found out that she would be at the party, he decided to go there despite all the danger, Benvolio, his friend, convinces Romeo to look for other beauties at the same party by saying: “At this same ancient feast of Capulet’s sups the fair Rosaline whom thou so lovest, with all the admired beauties of Verona Go thither; and with unattainted eye, compare her face with some that I shall show, and I will make thee think thy swan a crow”, showed irresponsibility because he also knew the consequences of Montagues being found at Capulet‘s partyt Although he was trying to help his friend get over someone who he could not have, he gave in to his own and his friend‘s frustration and threw out the idea of going there.
By saying “I’ll go along no such sight to be shown, but to rejoice in splendour of mine own”, Romeo portrayed his character and willingness to take danger for his love, for the ﬁrst time in the play and this wrong emotional decision became the ﬁrst mistake which made them step closer towards their death. Romeo went to the party in hoping to see Rosaline because he made it clear by saying the previous line that no one else would catch his eye but he was not expecting to meet Juliet there either, The second he laid eyes on her, he had decided that he had not seen anyone like her before and he instantly fell in love, “0 she doth teach the torches to burn bright! It seems she hangs upon the cheek of night like rich jewel in an Ethiop’s ear; Beauty too rich to use, for earth too dear! So shows a snowy dove trooping with crows, as yonder lady o’er her fellows shows. The measure done, I’ll watch her place of stand, and, touching hers, make blessed my rude hand. Did my heart love till now? Forswear it, sight! For | ne’er saw true beauty till this night”. Furthermore, Tybalt also relied on his anger too much and he went against the Lord Capulet’s command to leave Romeo alone. The Lord Capulet said “Young Romeo is it?
Content thee, gentle coz, let him alone, he bears him like a portly gentleman; and, to say truth. Verona brags of him to be a virtuous and well-governed youth”, however, Tybalt refused to endure Romeo by saying “Fetch me my rapier. Boy… What dares the slave come hither, cover’d with an antic face, to ﬂeer and scorn at our solemnity? Now by the stock and honour of my kin, to strike him dead, I hold it not a sin” and provoked him to ﬁght the next day. When Mercutio answers from Romeo and gets killed by Tybalt, Romeo kills Tybalt in his anger and revenge and in turn he is banished. Tybalt, Mercutio, and Romeo’s anger led them to break into a tight and Romeo’s banishment which is the second step towards their death driven by enmity. Moreover, Juliet’s emotions also add up to their tragic ending because Juliet took the step of faking her death to be with her love. She could not stand the idea of leaving Romeo and marrying Paris and that’s why in rush, she did not think her plan through, “God join’d my heart and Romeo’s, thou our hands; and ere this hand, by thee to Romeo’s seal’d, shall be the label to another deed, or my true heart with treacherous revolt turn to another, this shall slay them both.
Therefore, out of thy long experienced time, give me some present counsel, or, behold, twixt my extremes and me this bloody knife shall play the umpire, arbitrat‘ing that which the commission of thy years and art could to no issue of true honour bring. Be not so long to speak; I long to die If what thou speak’st speak not of remedy”. Juliet was also, like Romeo and Tybalt, emotionally frustrated and in that sentimental state, she made a very devastated and ill—conceived decision which was to fake her own death. The next two reasons for Romeo and Juliet’s deaths were the lack of communication and poor relations within the family. For instance, Juliet’s relation with her mother is very formal that she addresses her as “madam”. Also, their family does not have a strong bond as normal families do because when Lady Capulet asked Juliet about her thoughts on marrying Paris, she replied in a way which we could call unclear answer. “I’ll look to like, if looking liking move; but no more deep will I endart mine eye than your consent gives strength to make it ﬂy”. Juliet did not explain or give any insights of what she was thinking instead she agreed to her mother, gave no ﬁnal answer and decided to meet and see when the time will com.
This shows that Juliet was not comfortable talking to her parents and she was more attached to the nurses Moreover, on Romeo’s side, the book and the movie did not show the family relationship and only addressed Romeo’s relationships with his friends and with Juliet Benvolio and Mercutio were the only people who Romeo talked with about his problems. In the movie, we saw that when lady Montague asked Benvolio about Romeo and Romeo saw his parents, he quickly tried to hide and did not want to talk to his parents‘ The Lord and Lady Montague appeared in the movie and book only once, however, the lord and lady Capulet had a role throughout the play The lack of communication and weak family bond was also demonstrated when Juliet refuses to marry and her father enters her room to inform her about the marriage. The Lord Capulet does not ask Juliet about the marriage instead he assumes that she would agree with him and makes a decision about her life without considering her choice When she rejects the marriage, he threatens her with banishment from the family and does not care to let her have a say in her life.
Furthermore, when Juliet realizes that her father would not change his decision, she does decide to go to her mother for help, however, her mother also replies her with this: “talk not to me, for I’ll not speak a word. Do as thou wilt, for l have done with thee”. The most important relation in our life is with our families and we expect them to have our backs in our hard time, however, in this case, it was not the same. Juliet could not go to anyone because they assumed that they can make better decisions for her and they did not consider her choices, In her hard time, when she turned to the nurse, she left her as well because she was just a servant to her family and could not take her parents’ place despite their closeness and attachment, Juliet did not get that support from her family and could not think of any other way to be with Romeo other than asking Friar Lawrence for help. Due to not having enough time, they rushed into a plan which at the end, did not go as planned Another reason for Romeo and Juliet’s deaths was too many expectations because, in the play, no one communicated with each other adequately and expected everything to fall in place and to go as planned.
For example, Juliet’s father arranged her marriage with Paris without telling her and assumed that she would agree with them. They did not even consider the possibility of Juliet liking someone else and did not think that she might have someone else in mind whom she wants to marry. Moreover, when Friar Lawrence decided to help Romeo and Juliet with their marriage by saying “In one respect I‘ll thy assistant be; for this alliance may so happy prove, to turn your households‘ rancour to pure love”, he also presumed that after their marriage, the feud between two households would come to an end. He did not consider that this feud has been coming from generations back and the hatred has only increased over time There was a fight that broke down in the streets of Verona only a few days prior, between the servants of two families who just work for them. He did not even consider the possibility of Romeo and Juliet’s families denying their love and marriage and only assumed that they would end the conﬂict only because their children are claiming to be in love with each othec Also, taking into account that they were still very young and Romeo was very passionate about Rosaline to the limit of staying away and awake at night and acting poetic, only a number of days ago.
The Friar agreed to their wedding in just one meeting with Romeo despite knowing about the family feud and their enmity and hoped that everything would fall into place after their marriage The steps that led us to Romeo and Juliet’s death prove that their lives were planned by destiny, however, the reasons mentioned above and characters’ intrusions do provide us a logic explanation, Poor relationships, lack of communication, too many expectations and irrational thinking are legitimate reasons for their doom. Though, the meeting of two people in an unpredictable manner, falling in love and marrying the enemy, one’s banishment, not being able to receive the letter on time and committing suicide is a perfect story of two “star crossed” lovers who ended the feud which was coming from generations back. Their deaths had reasons and a purpose which was fulﬁlled very soon after. “I fear, too early, for my mind misgives, some consequence yet hanging in the stars shall bitterly begin his fearful date with this night’s revels, and expire the term of a despised life closed in my breast by some vile forfeit of untimely death”. Romeo says this to Benvolio and Mercutio before going to the party and feels as if something is about to happen which it did and it was the beginning of the story of promises and love as the Prince said “ for never there was a story of more woe than this ofJuliet and her Romeo”.