In life we all have something that was changed the way we perceive things. Most things that change a persons perception happens to be an experience that they have gone through and learned from. In my case, it was high school experience. When people start high school, theyre usually excited. They cant wait to experience everything that comes with being in high school, I mean who wouldnt? Everyone says that high school is the best four years of your life.
Now looking back on those years, I cant say they were the best years, but I can say they were the most unique years. When I say unique, I mean it was a special and unrepeatable experience I could ever have. Ive learned so much about myself and about life. I truly learned what the words love, family, respect, and betrayal meant. All these high school lessons have changed me for the better, except my personality.
Im still a fun-loving girl, with control issues and shy tendencies. High school has given me so much; I have met the best people there and made friendships that will last a lifetime. For four years, my life was defined and confined by, and to Jack Yates High School.
My freshmen and sophomore years were an array of ups and downs. I had my first real boyfriend freshman year, which lasted quite a lot of time for a girls first relationship.
I was completely in love with this guy, my world revolved around him. In hindsight, that probably wasnt the greatest idea. After the break-ups and make-ups, we finally decided enough was enough, and broke it off for good. At first, I was angry and jealous of the fact that he could move on before I could, but that subsided rather quickly. The boyfriend train did stop there, I dated a fair share of guys that I knew wouldnt last, but in my senor year there was this one guy that changed everything.
He was charming, goofy, strong, and he had the most gorgeous smile I had ever seen. I thought our relationship was one-of-a-kind and would last forever. When we broke up, it literally shattered my world. He felt so cold when he broke up with me like I meant nothing to him, like our year-long relationship meant nothing. All I could do was cry and listen to sad music that made me cry more. Everything felt as if it was falling apart all around me, it took everything good inside me and turned it rotten. The only thing that saved me from all that pain was my mother; she saved me in ways I cannot even explain. My mom gave hope, and something to look forward to. Ive learned many things from her and from that experience. My life would be totally different without my mom in it.
Throughout the events and experiences, I have been though in high school Ive learned to pick my friends wisely, put my trust in people who deserve it, and never let anyone walk all over me. I am a stronger person because of the hardships and obstacles life has thrown at me. In the four years, I have had so milestones that has influenced most of who I am now. If it was because of being in student council, volunteering for Houston Food Bank, or being able to express myself through my writing. High school really gave me an outlet to follow every idea and goal I wanted to explore. By the end of high school, I could have only imagined how it would feel leaving and going to college. I always wondered how it was to be in the real world but my mom continuously tole me to Never grow up too fast, be a kid as long as you can. I didnt really take it seriously until I got older and realized it is easier when you are a kid. You dont have to worry about anything, and your parents take care of all your needs.
The most important thing I have learned in high school, did not come from books; I learned about life. I learned that there always is room for improvement, and I learned how to become a better student overall. I left high school as a knowledgeable senior, ready to take on college, then the world! I may not know what the world holds for me, all I can do is walk through it with an open mind and hope I thrive in it.